There's probably no other blogger I look up to and respect more than
Darby Stickler. She's a mama to three rovers, twin sister to
Erika, supportive wife to Justin, and friend to about 15,340 people. She also has the cutest
line of kids clothes that make Tim and I wanna throw our birth control out the window. Darby is like falling into a gigantic easy chair, and I couldn't be more honored and excited to have my sweet friend featured as our guest letter writer today. I love you, Darbs!
Dear Justin: you make me proud for so many reasons ... most recently for picking out a slam up rental house {without me} for your family, a house that makes us all really excited about the summer together ahead! Thanks for always encouraging me that it's okay to think outside the box and print
armadillos on t-shirts, even though they are rodents with shells. As my editor-in-chief, I'm thankful that you can type in
red and remind me that
commas come after independent clauses. One day I'll surprise you and commas, will, be, all, over, the, place! Thanks for getting excited about
Sugarland's "Stuck Like Glue," not because you love it, but because you know I do and because absolutely nobody knows me better. Maybe I'll make us a mix tape and we can dance on the dock this summer to
Sugarland and I'll throw in a little Jakob Dylan's
"Something Good This Way Comes" too!
{A really good album!}. You can have your
PBR and I'll take a UFO and we can dance into the night as the sun sets over the bay. Summer come quick! But between now and then the kids and I will be working really hard to learn directions according to the clock so when you say,
"The dolphin's are at 1 o'clock!" they'll turn their heads to the exact spot! We'll also be working on scientific names of all Gulf Coast species of birds, trees, and fish since your preference is to identify them by such. I foresee a successful summer of slaying
Paralichthys Lethostigma {or is it
Paralichthys Albigutta?} from the dock this summer! And one more thing ... my ultimate identity is in Christ, but being your wife is an integral part of who I am and in the last several months I've learned that so much of what makes me tick is being your wife. I love you!
Dear Rovers: My goodness do I love life with you little creatures! Especially when it comes to impromptu post-bath dance parties in the kitchen to
Mandi Mapes',
"This Love." {Download the whole album on
iTunes! It's a winner!}. You never cease to amaze me with your mad dancing skills and willingness to break it down to really loud music. Thank you for also reminding me that the Kingdom of heaven belongs to little people like yourselves. Morgan, I'm really proud of your super mad reading skills which has resulted in your willingness to tackle bedtime stories for Mommy! Paige, I'm really proud of you for being so brave and for being so
squirrelly all at the same time. Rover, I'm so proud of your ability to do all your business in the potty ... except for the time this week in the library when the train table was apparently more important! I also love it when you turn your little chubby hands up in the air when I ask you a question that you don't know the answer to and say, "I don't know!" Morgan, Paige, and Rover, my love for all of you is the deep kind and I love you all of the time!
Dear Sister: I think you are a total
rockstar! You are the most
hilarious professional person I know! You have an amazing amount of talent that you are putting to good use and I still don't know how you juggle it all. Maybe it's that cortisone shot? If so, I'm going to see if I can get 2 or 12 in the morning. What kind of symptoms should I go in with? I love you and one day soon we're going to take a little
trip together again so I can take a lot of pictures of you from behind. Be sure to bring your
Ricolas, red bag, and yellow sweater so I can easily spot you. And I'll be sure to bring my camera so that everyone will know that I'm not a local.
Dear Mom & Daddy Boy: Life's too short to live 12 hours away. Today's high here: 90° with sunshine. Today's high there: 49° with scattered thunderstorms. I also know of 4 little grandchildren in the area. And mom, I know Rover says he "no love you," but I think he's just confused or playing hard to get, it happens a lot with 2-yr-
olds. Please accept his apologies.
Love,
Darby